James O'Dowd, Psy. D.

Clinical Psychologist PSY 18588
Psychotherapy for Adolescents and Families
2345 California Street, Ste. 7   San Francisco, Ca

415.725.0804
Clinical Psychologist
Psychotherapy for Adults, Adolescents, and Children

Being a teenager is hard and raising one can be even harder. I appreciate and respect the challenges teens and families experience during this life stage and believe this time presents a unique opportunity for growth by all family members.

Teenagers experience an incredible amount of rapid change. The stress of these changes can often be overwhelming and leave a teen feeling unable to cope. Additionally, teens are at a point in their lives where direct communication of their emotions is still an underdeveloped skill. When teens experience pain, but are unable to express themselves, they may act out their feelings – some times in destructive ways. Poor school performance, oppositional and defiant attitudes, and drug and alcohol use, may be how a teen is signaling parents to pay closer attention to them. Such circumstances may warrant professional help.

I provide a safe, supportive, and confidential space to help teens find their voice so that they can feel heard and understood. My approach involves developing a ‘real’ relationship with each teen using humor, understanding, validation, and when appropriate, direction and confrontation. I help teens develop coping skills to tolerate difficult feelings, express them appropriately, make clear choices and informed decisions, and forge healthier relationships with the important people in their lives.

While parents often find themselves successful in many other areas of their lives, parenting a teenager can often feel like a losing battle. No wonder! Teens demand more freedom and space at a time in their lives when the stakes seem higher and they appear unprepared for the challenges ahead. I offer parent consultations to help parents understand this difficult time and feel more confident navigating those tricky and seemingly impossible moments. This may mean learning to set firmer limits, knowing when to let go, or finding the right balance between the two. And sometimes a parent may just need a safe place to decompress, unload their stress, and be supported.